Before we begin any other discussions, we must first ask ourselves what we are actually looking for in friendships. Consider what informs your personality- childhood, hobbies, interests, culture etc. Now, ask yourself what you desire in friendship. So many times we enter friendships and stay in them for years without evaluation, contemplation, or any serious thought.
Friendships require more than just a single commonality to grow and develop. When we base friendships on only commonality, we assume depth where depth has not been cultivated. Intentionality is a key component of friendship development, and I believe that when we stop viewing friendships as mere “side jobs” we will naturally have a bend toward healthy relationships.
As you dive deeper into my blog, I would like for you to consider your friends, both besites and acquaintances and view them through the lens of where you want the friendship to be in a year. Think of ways you can grow deeper without being burdened or becoming a burden and be natural about it. I believe in you!
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